Human beings have the capacity to endure unhappiness.

We tolerate settling for a life that happens to us, rather than created by us. This idea that we are the the accumulative sum of our childhood experiences and all the choices we have made arriving at this point in time
After all if we start life with bad experiences, which then lead to bad choices, how can we expect to ever be happy, and content in our lives. 

This ability of ours to endure a life filled with bad choices, fear, anxiety, pocratination, self loathing...Is our lot in life, or at least that is what we convince ourselves to settle for. In reality after years of enduring this state it takes a lot less energy to keep enduring it, than making life changing choices. 

For many people they reach the tipping point where the pain of staying where they are becomes greater than the desire to transform there lives.

Lets say that you are at this point, ready to make different choices, you are searching, and searching for the right action, decision, or magic bullet that will end all those years of suffering. This desperate need to find happiness and contentment in your life often is doomed to fail , and ultimately reinforce that you will never be happier than you are now, in that you need to except your lot in life and that things will never change.

Such a depressing and tiring life to live. 

There comes a time when we need to be daring and bold and make such profound changes, that they completely contradict everything we know. We need to take action that is foreign to us, that will leave our negative subconcious  , redundant, without a job and role in our lives anymore. An action that confounds our reasoning and that lays down a challenge.

So what is this profound action, this game changing action? Great question! How will we know that it is game changing? This is where a life coach comes in. They help us to see the wood through the trees, to separate what is driven by our faulty view of the world, and what is truly a bold action that will begin to rewrite our destinies.

This action will require us to find and reconnect to the things that we may have given up on in the past, like persistence, trust, faith, and a belief that we can change. Most of all it will need to speak to that part of us, buried deep, that ignites when it meets that action. We need to persist in searching for what true lasting and sustainable happiness is for Me.

Let the journey towards your bold action begin! Take the first step and get thyself to a life coach! Better still book yourself in for a free complimentary session with LifeCoachingBydesign, and begin the journey.